Yaoi is literally only consumed by annoying women that want to fetishize two boys liking each other it's actually so weird
Same opinion on people with "lesbian" fetishes it's just gross
if not think about it like this:
>sees video of man and woman doing it
>likes it
>doesn't like the fact they are liking a man
>therefore, replace him with a woman
>now there are no men to accidentally get hard to