Porn is a form of sexual self care as long as it is not CP/Zoophilia/Fetish stuff/gore.
“It’s not morally right.”
Guess who else says that. The radical evangelicals that usually get exposed for being PDF files.
“It’s scientifically bad.”
No it’s not. That’s science denial, something MAGA does frequently.
“It’s not manly/hurts motivation”
Apparently thats just toxic masculinity. People try to push us to standards we will burn out trying to reach before we get close. Goals/ meditation/ etc. is of scarce comfort when sometimes you have to go on drugs to reach the self improvement deadline. Over focusing on self improvement can hurt you too.