im not sure how people expect people to be "talked out" of it. she _may_ be trying to tell you not to use labels. because labels have been shown to make self fulfilling prohosees(however you spell that).
I'm the kind of guy that doesn't give a damn what my parents think
like just cuz u gave birth to me doesn't mean I have to deal with your opinion
or sum
cuz like I'm pan and they don't like it
but idgaf
kewl
I was thinking of being aro after breaking up with my first bf (cuz I didn't really feel anything for him) but then I found some1 I actually love so now me n the other guy are dating :P