So, I'm 16, 2 weeks away from my GCSE exams, but I'm not ready for adulthood yet. Part of the reason for this is because my mum has always babied me to the point where I need help for the simplest tasks. I'm not worried about getting a job, but I am worried about everything else, like moving out. Although my mum is planning to move somewhere around Northern England so she can create a bookstore and have me stick around to help out, I don't know what I should do once my mum eventually passes. And my dad most likely can't help because he has Stage 4 throat cancer and he only has 18 months left at most.
This is made even worse because my narcissistic older sister isn't helping out at all. Okay, she's teaching me the basics of housework, but that's about it. She acts super negative when I open up to her, and has refused to help me should I end up alone. She does this to drain our confidence so that her unrealistic dreams can seem reachable for her (she's basically leeching off of her deadbeat dad's money btw instead of looking for a job when her baby's old enough to go to nursery)
