What if I told you that the reason Calvinism had very little to do with you is because your successor,Theodore Beza, twisted your writings into demonic lies & that is what most Christians are against. True the Bible says this but because the writings were changed the context of John 6:44 was twisted. The Father does draw the spirit by force back into union with Himself but ONLY after the individual soul receives Christ when the Holy Spirit calls. Calls happen first not the other way around because God wanted a relationship as well so man's yes is needed for that & HE IS NO LESS SOVEREIGN DOING IT THIS WAY! For the billionth time Romans 9 is CLEARLY speaking to nations based on the context of what happened prior to what was said here. Although, it is true that He did predestine us in the unbound by time eternal realm to seal His kingdom but based on His foreknowledge & middle knowledge of everything, every possibility & everyone. He knew who would perish but they still get called & the atonement for SIN ITSELF could've been theirs as well