And it’s important to remember that you should still be held accountable for hurting anyone when they tell you to stop joking about something that’s hurt them in the past.
Didn’t you guys settle this and it’s over..? or do you still have issues with him? if you do then you guys need to talk it out instead of dragging it almost everyday. This is harming both of you and can result in something bad
i think it’s common sense but everyone has a different was of processing emotions. I know that some people find comfort in knowing that others share their experiences and aren’t alone, But it’s also not ok to compare or belittle them. Even if it sounds arrogant of a person saying, “I went through this too” then just say that it makes you feel uncomfortable. It’s not ok to tear them down too when you both need understanding.