I'm gonna be honest
That joke about "there are [number] of [identity]s and every time you complain we add more"
that's actually a pretty bad thing
because not only does it make the LGBTQ community harder for someone on the outside to understand and/or accept
it makes it harder for someone IN the community to figure out what they are because there are so many titles and they constantly change or fall out of use
why the f**k do LGBTQ people give so much of a shit about dumbass labels and shit like "aegosexual" and "alloromantic" and "pangender" that mean actually f**king nothing. like this is why so many people are homophobic