js strike up a convertation, complement them ask a question and turn it into a convo and eventually be like hey can i get you {info} your actualy pretty cool and js go on from there
bro dont look down apon your selfs, ive youve made mistakes fix them, grow from it and move on, your still a kid , the ppl who think you #1 will not even know you in the next 5 years if that so stop worrying and focus on yourself