:/; guys as someone with naturally curly fluffy hair im confused with white queers mostly being obsessed with fluffing their hair. like, its so difficult. like, i get so many comments about my hair being so beautiful and thick and fluffy, but it’s legit a nightmare that takes forever to fix up in the mornings, and i would give anything to remove the memories of my confused south asian haired mom attempting to brush out my tangled curly hair i inherited from my dad as i, 5 years old, scream and cry because its super painful and she doesn’t get it because it feels like im in tartarus thank you for listening to my ted talk