Its just f**king stupid. I said f*ggot, BUT LISTEN EVERYONE, me and my friends talk like that. Ive NEVER known it was a slur. So when I found out it was, I IMMEDIATELY apologized. But they wouldnt listen. Its just they way we talked yknow? We never meant it as an insult, it was just more like a name yknow? SO anyways shit happened, and here I am paying the price because even though at the beginning she said "she was committed", apparently, she was "in over her head".