What do y’all think about this?

There are tgirls that aren't 100% binary and like having beards. Like my reason for not liking beards is more autism related tbh, if I was neurotypical I'd have two d-cups and a wizard beard.

1) How so?
2) That is ridiculously delusional. You are not cisgender. The revelation of people hearing that you identify as female does not automatically qualify them as misogynistic. It qualifies them as likely being transphobic.

Ok, 1 and 2 are merging again
I don't tell everybody "I' a trans girl". I say "I'm a girl", and I'm suddenly treated differently. That different treatment, the instantly treating me as if I'm a dumbass girl comes from the patriarchy. That's how that works.

Do you tell them in real life or online?

online, irl I'm pretty stuck in the closet

give me an example of when, as soon as it was known that you were a girl, that you were automatically assumed to be less intelligent

I'm supposed to remember everyone I interact with?
Like it has happened to me. I've gotten mansplained to in here.

you can't say "i think this way because of personal experience" and then not explain the personal experience dawg

Dude, just search on google stuff like that, almost every woman has gone through that. Ask anyone. I don't rember the usernames, but it has happened

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Variability_hypothesis
have you ever heard of this?

Me when someone really pulls out the male variability 😭😭😭
That's a literal ass misunderstood statistical bias 💀💀💀
Men tend to be diagnosed more because they're taken more seriously.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/survey-shows-changing-attitudes-about-womens-intelligence
this ain't the 1940s

Faulty methodology. Asking a bunch of people "Are women dumber than men" and noting the answers doesn't mean anything when we're talking about subconscious biases.

You can’t claim to want to be feminine and want facial hair. That’s blatantly hypocritical.

I can. First of all, you've never teft a cis woman alone with a fake beard and it shows. Secondly, I am not claiming that the beard is feminine. That's why I specifically mentioned those who aren't 100% binary.
And lastly, just tangentially related, how is it that when a cis woman doesn't care abt what society says and lets herself get hairy and stuff she's brave and standing up to patriarchy, but when a tgirl does it, she's "faking"

What the hell does "100% binary" even mean?

The last thing you said is completely wrong. I do not in any way think the anti-patriarchy stuff is good either. When a cisgender woman doesn't care about what society says and lets herself get hairy, she's doing something called just not giving a fuсk about how she looks. It has nothing to do with gender identity. And western society in general does not hold that extremely misandrist view - most of that particular kind of feminism comes from an extremely vocal minority.

And 100% binary means just girl or boy, nothing in between, not both nor neither

I believe that ANY sort of discrimination is bad. You should too. It is equally as bad as misogyny.

1) How is a woman deciding not to pursue the unrealistic beauty standards of the world we live in discriminatory in any way? How is praising her for having the balls to tell the corrupt system to go f**k itself discriminatory?
2) No man is discriminated for being a man. They may be attacked for feminine characteristics (Misogyny), they may be systematically forced into bottling in all their emotions (Misogyny), but no one is like "All men are evil", and if you think people are, your connection to reality seems tenuous.

1) I never said that in particular was discriminatory.
2) DEI initiatives done by some corporations, by promoting gender identities like nonbinary over the genders of male and female involves discrimination of men for the sake of being men. I have personally come across people online who have believed that they inherently despised men and were afraid of them and that they were evil. Believing that nobody thinks that “All men are evil” is delusional.

1) you literally said that that is a misandrist idea 💀💀💀
2) Anti discrimination initiatives don't discriminate, they try and compensate for privilege ^^

1) I meant that the idea of a patriarchy existing is misandrist. Not that a woman acting like that is misandrist.
2) If your company had an unlimited capacity for employees it wouldn’t. But in the real world where people fight for jobs, giving someone that job simply based on an immutable characteristic instead of their actual skill or merit is incredibly unfair. And last I checked, judging people based on immutable characteristics was, by definition, discrimination.

1) It... ain't. It's... objectively correct.
2) Men tend to be taken more seriously. Studies have been done, and genuinely I've had people treat me very differently the moment they learn I'm a girl. Women will get employed less bc the world is biased due to patriarchy. That stuff is made to counteract that.

so tgirls that aren't 100% binary is still like demigirl, androgynous, right? androgynous people would also NOT have beards. that doesn't even make sense

It does make sense. Some people are comfortable w/ beards, some people aren't. That's that. If you don't find it appealing, that's ok, Ahura knows I don't, but to say someone ain't a woman bc she can't be bothered to shave is ridiculuous

Beard growth is DIRECTLY correlated with increased testosterone. And last time I checked, testosterone was used in masculinization during FTM transitions.

Transmedicalism. Like imagine a trans woman who can't really access HRT, or whose body generates so much T that the blockers don't fully work. They're still women even if they have a beard. I myself am a woman who hasn't shaved in like a week and have a beard. I'm still a woman.

I can completely understand if a trans woman can’t access HRT or something — like if their parents or the people they live with disagree with it. However, if they’re going to have a beard because of that, that’s inherently masculine, and so what the fuсk are you doing on a dating app where people are only attracted to feminine features?

Clearly you aren't a lesbian. Like no offence, but genuinely, I've seen lesbians date girls who look like a greasy-ass incel that hasn't ever been in the sun but with tits. Like lesbians can be attracted to VERY VERY manly women.

Its a fair point.

The problem with these shits is that they hear “gender is fluid” (or something like that) and take full f**king advantage of that.

i feel like if you dont like the guys then dont like them. am i trippin?

they’re on a dating app intended for feminine people and they aren’t even acting feminine
they can’t filter them out

i may be tripping... its late for me. but like, its a dating app. people will ignore people they dont like.

because there is like a lot of them, like it’s not just 1% of them, who are being homophobic and are thinking that “oh well if I do nothing but IDENTIFY as a man that she automatically has to like me”

they are just stupid. why do they think that it would work? this is why i dislike dudes like this. like just kiss each other instead of trying to hit on lesbians.

no but for real, its knda stupid how they think that things should act the same way as it always have

it’s also misogynistic

i sorta know what the word means. (self centered?)
i guess there should be a comment section on people. (although that would likely lead to worse results that already)
if it isnt in a detramental state and there is no clear solution and it isnt getting worse, dont fix it. (may be a slight oversight on my side here)