No, not a s**t. Nobody was coming within six feet of her privates. She'd starve herself of love to the point that it was downright toxic which you normally only see guys doing. But where the comes from, getting too attached gets people killed so she had good reason to be emotionally distant. The only people she was an asshole to where an even bigger racist asshole to her aside from her ex-boyfriend but they have complicated history. And as for the traitor part? Sam and Dean kidnapped her and held her hostage and forced her to help them try to kill Ketch (her ex-boyfriend and baby daddy). She never betrayed anyone on her own accord, she was left with no choice. She had her toddler son to think about, afterall. If she died, well, you know.
