Storytime: at a college thingamajig, we had to write out pronouns. My closeted tgirl ass wrote "Cualquiera menos elle" (any except for "they/them") and the guy who was teaching us (like not really 100% teacher, but still) told me why wouldn't I use those. I answered I disliked how they sounded, like if someone Ik uses them, I'll go out of my way to gender them in phrases using the correct gendering, but I ain't causing me to hear it more than I need to, and he was like "so you'd be ok with us calling you she/her". I look like a big guy, I do dark humour, I'm pretty decent at engineering and I'm kind of fat, so Ig he expected for my fragile masculinity to get summoned and be like "hell naw". I just looked at my friend I was out to, smiled and said "Of course".
He was like "oh, ok"