passes aren’t real
if black people feel ok with white or people of another race calling them an N word then i feel like something is wrong. they are basically just looking down on you bruh :/ that’s a red flag imo
Exactly
The question of -er vs -a could be brought up here, since -er is exclusively and universally seen as racist, while -a has casual, loving, and/or normalizes uses, even by non-blacks
But I ain’t one to set rules on this