Well, you did things to her that she didn't consent to, and tried to manipulate her in one way or another, which kind of brings you into the groomer category.
Yes I ignored her when I insisted on helping her so much and had pretended to hug her and stuff because I thought that's what best friends do which is comforting each other so ask Stolen_toast herself. I want you to remove me because I am leaving her alone unlike what a groomer would had otherwise done.