And the next thing youāll see is him blaming some illness. I also have autism and neurodivergent issues but using them as excuses is terrible. It may make you worse at getting social cues or making friends, which is why you should be careful when replying to someone with autism. And that person should ask questions to understand what they meant before getting upset. I just feel like he should report them privately, or just donāt respond. But first of all he needs to ignore it if itās that bad.