thats... not how you get a boy to like you its that simple
in my opinion relationships between a male and female should be an even 50/50 when it comes to "control"
remember that traditional marriages revolve around the Female sustaining the household and family
and the male providing for it
many of these things have gotten mixed up
whether it be freeloading, or whatever
imma be real, the reason why males are supposed to provide is because we have the ability to
and considering perhaps, lets say the dude works for a lawn care company, he has to work his ass off day by day to provide.
PHYSICALLY. The woman is unable to do this, which nowadays women may see this is as an insult, though in reality they have as many other abilites as the man.
Though most likely the biggest flaw in modern marriages is the control-freak males attempting to rule everything and such, which quickly makes the wives fed up.