Something similar, and I feel like I should ask people who might have experience loving, would you say it's worth it to love? Not just romantically either, platonically too. I hear it described as the nicest, safest, comfiest feeling there is but also as a horrible illogical hyperfixation and attachment. Maybe the attachment thing is a good thing too? Idk. That's why I'm asking. Anyways is the alleged pleasure worth risking the pain?