I'm only poly as long as I don't have a full 100% actual partner. Because that has yet to happen. I am always completely clear about the fact that people should not get attached to me and I'm probably not gonna reciprocate anything. So if people are gonna keep that in mind I'm not gonna say no to trying something; The issue is when you keep quiet about it / spring it upon somebody IN THE MIDDLE OF A RELATIONSHIP because that shit is just cruel.