If it isn't safe to come out, DO NOT COME OUT. Your safety, physically, mentally, and emotionally, is the TOP priority. There is no law saying you have to come out.
If your relationship is at stake do not come out until it is safe to do so, such as when you're an independent adult. Prioritize safety. Prioritize an above standard life.
HI. I NEED ALL YALL'S HELP.
MY PARENTS ARE THE MOST
HOMOPHOBIC PEOPLE YOU'VE EVER SEEN.
I'M PAN AND NON-BINARY.
BUT I DON'T TELL A LOT OF PEOPLE.
I WANT TO TELL THEM,
BUT I'M AFRAID.
PLEASE, GIVE ME SOME ADVICE.