everyday i tell myself that doing nothing gives you nothing , i want to have a partner so bad but i do nothing to get one , i watch around me loads of people hgetting someone . But at the same time i think "in 5 years if i met someone , would i be with or would i cry thinking abt hem". To me, not having a partner or having nothing that works good for you to get one means its too early , means that you gotta learn loads and loads of things before this happens , life takes time but for good reasons , to learn. If i look at my past rn , i can see lots of things that ended in a way i remember them for what i learned , exemple : an adult isnt always a well behaved person , toxic people always are toxic you just se it only when you accept it... Think about it, we all have in some ways a to do list of things you want to do before yoou die , maybe some wants to be rich , famous or some wants to have a partner . All i can say is that if its important enough to be on this list , it means it'll take time , but you'll get a result. So never think about giving up on your dreams , cause dreams are made to become true.