What are the spoon things?

Big spoon means the person who wraps their arms around the other and the other is the person their arms are being wrapped around by

I literally thought it was just talking about the spoon they eat with lol

Lmao yes this is the correct answer now

So big spoon is the hugger/initiates hugs
Little spoon is the one that goes with it.

Yea

K, thx, introducing the remp to bossfights now