Being Polyamorous is a lie, it’s just cheating with extra steps

Common Behapp W

Didn't know you were online rn

You cannot be talking dude

Woah woah woah he’s actually doing smth good, let him be for now

Ok

I know

real

Mhm

Exactly what I'm saying

And I'm hated for saying that

People are dumb

So are you.

I get As in Math

I get a fu​cking honor roll almost every year and I finally got one signed by the principal herself which is an extra achievement since you need almost a GPA of 4.0

Is that the best one in your town?

Yeah

Aren't the schools in Wisconsin really bad

Mf sure there may be constant wacky shit but I'm like the only one there who isn't insanely fu​cking sped or psychopathic

And that's the one I took a picture of and drew my characters with it

Nah your hated for other stuff buddyb

Mhm

difficult

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im jk i never cheated i swear

good.

Legal cheating

Fr

Shouldn’t even be condoned

Real

Yuh

Crazy take: polyamory is loyal. It's only cheating if the main partner is uninformed

If a person fails to inform their partner they are poly
If a person fails to inform their partner of new relationships (unless otherwise specified)
If a person's partner says no to them other partners, but still goes and does it anyway

It shouldn’t be hard to just stay with 1 person

Different people have different preferences though

Clearly not loyal ones

You can be loyal to multiple people.

Take family and friends for example
People don't expect you to have just one friend or family member and not every have any other people in your life

That's just weird

Family is way different

Is it though?

Having a relationship with someone really just means that you feel safe and regularly content with them, despite whatever conflict may happen. You have a connection through something, somehow.

(^ applies to all types of non-stranger relationships: family, friends, lovers)

not readin allat

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make it shorter

Relationships in general: experience of safety and contentment with a person you know

I'm gonna get low rated for this aren't I

Yeah no. It’s definitely a relationship just not a loyal one.

The whole idea of main and side partners is literally just cheating

Cheating requires a party to be unknowledgeable and unconsenting
(Take for example a man f**ks his gfs bff, without the gf knowing. That's cheating.)

Polyamory has both knowledge and consent

So it’s literally just allowing your partner to cheat

...no
Both partners are permitted to date other people in a polyam relationship, as long as there is solid communication

There is no such thing as a polyam relationship 😭

If you have a main partner you should only be with the main partner. Even if you tell them about the side chicks that’s literally just an excuse to cheat and still be with that one person.

Polyam relationships that don't have main partners and everyone involved is treated equally:

That’s just an orgy

There's nonsexual ones though

Or just stay loyal to 1 person

Not all people want that though

Oh and bonus:

Side partners being uninformed of the main partner would also make it cheating