I don't think that's how it works

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I mean if you hate humans
Become an alien

if you were an alien ass race would you look at what humans are up to and say "hell yeah lets see whats going on here"

what with average human disagreements causing millions of deaths

well the lack of aliens could also be explained as if the aliens themselves had disputes and ended up going extinct, meaning that only very few of them survived
we've already had disputes that very nearly killed ourselves, like in the 60s and 80s when the United States and Soviet Union came close to a nuclear exchange

so my point is why would we be specially bad when we literally have no data on other aliens?

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i believe more that if there are aliens (which I believe there are) they are so incredibly far away that they have no idea we even f**king exist, or at least cant make it here with their tech either

not to mention that theyre probably bacteria more often than multicelled organisms

There are like plenty of hypothesises to explain this that have nothing to do with ourselves like the Dark Forest Theory
It makes no sense statistically that we would inherently suck as a species but that aliens would be normal