Change My Mind

Being the oldest means you have all the responsibilities, you're not allowed to cry, be angry, or have panic attacks because you need to set a "good example" for your younger siblings. You get the harshest punishments because you're supposed to know better and you are the experiment child so you will probably have a worse childhood than your younger siblings

we are clearly living in very different families.

... Yeah probably. In my family being the middle child would be the best.

I am the second youngest of 4 and i seem to be the only one who doesn't get all the support i need

For me it's the same thing because I'm the oldest.

I've gotten punished for having panic and anxiety attacks, for crying, for being mad about something because I need to be a "good example"

Me being the eldest child.
Also Me: has Autism