i dont mean to sound like im defending anyone but like
some/most of the groomer "dramas" are just cases of whodunnit where someone accuses someone they dont like of doing something bad with no evidence and others just immediately believe it
im not saying that that person that was accused of doing [{bad thing}] whatever [{bad thing}] may be didn't do [{bad thing}]
I'm just saying that I'm not gonna immediately believe that that person did [{bad thing}] just because someone said they did [{bad thing}] without giving any concrete evidence that they did [{bad thing}] first