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I got muted indefinitely because I was very rude to others like saying "shut the f**k up" et cetera but according to punishments channel it should only be a month mute after 3 days not indefinite, also since the people that I was rude to hate me (or at least my brain processes it as that they hate me) I believe that they knew that it is easy to get me angry and so they purposely baited me into getting upset and mad so that I said things out of anger so that I could get banned which I really don't think is fair. Also notice how in the reason it says "extra point due to rapid accrument of points and clear lack of change in behaviour and attitude" even though of course there's gonna be a clear lack of change in behaviour and attitude when, one, the person displaying said behavior (in this case, me) is still upset, and two, you don't just change your behavior magically in a few seconds. I am willing to accept a mute for a week, two weeks, maybe a month if need be, but I really don't think an indefinite mute is fair. I also don't think it's fair that the moderators had basically allowed for this behavior to continue until I was "baited" (I think that's the right word??) into saying things that I didn't mean and just said out of anger but were still pretty bad things. Also, why do I get an indefinite mute for "being rude" when most of what I said is just "shut the f**k up" and the others just get off scot-free when they call me things like a "retard" or a "dumbass" etc. etc.? Numerous times has this happened where other people in Vetcord have purposely and knowingly said things that they knew would make me angry in an attempt to make me say things that I don't mean but are still pretty bad (presumably in an attempt to get rid of me since some people in Vetcord very clearly have a bias against me and/or hate me and/or find me annoying) and (almost) every single one of those times have I gotten a mute and the other people who purposely "baited" me into saying whatever got me a mute have gotten away with doing said actions (which would count as provoking/starting drama, rule 15)

(cont.) and also I feel like a lot of the users who called me retarded (I remember false_paladin and mysticvelo calling me that, I'm not sure about false_paladin's intents but it was obvious that mysticvelo had intended to say that in a degrading and demeaning way) and remember rule 4 of the server, which is "Do not make insults, jokes or use slurs based on sexuality, gender, or anything discriminatory" and I feel like retard would count as a slur based on anything discriminatory. Yes, I know that "mental retardation" is a medical condition, but almost (if not) 100% of the time, when someone calls someone else a retard, they're saying it with the intent to be demeaning and degrading. Also, it feels like some of the users have resorted to almost immediately directly insulting, demeaning, and (possibly/potentially, might be an overreaction sorry if it is) attempting to dehumanize me simply because I'm special ed (which I am, for some reason a lot of people in Vetcord resort to directly insulting or targeting me for that specific reason whenever an argument sparks that I'm involved in in some way) which I feel like at least one or two of those people would know that that's a sensitive topic for me and that they're purposely doing that to try and provoke me into getting mad and saying things that I don't mean and am just saying out of anger so that I get in trouble, which I think is really unfair. Yes, I do agree that my behavior isn't the most favorable or the nicest to put up with, and I'm making an effort to change, but I feel like the others in Vetcord shouldn't just be able to beat me down constantly whenever I say something slightly stupid. I'm asking for my indefinite mute to either be appealed or shortened to a 1 week-1 month (anything between those I'd prefer, I mean I'll take a 2 or 3 month mute but I prefer those). Thank you for understanding.