Me: “hey can I go out”; Mom: “Listen up, I want you to hear me clearly before you head out. You will follow these rules, no exceptions! First, you’re to be back home by 8 and no later, understood? Second, you must check in with me at least once while you’re out; I want to know where you are and who you’re with. No hanging out with people I don’t know or trust. And remember to stay safe. I don’t want to hear about you taking any unnecessary risks or making poor decisions. You represent this family, and I expect you to act accordingly. Now, do you have everything you need? Don’t come back asking for anything last minute. Have fun, but remember—make smart choices!"; Dad: “come back by 10 PM (optional)”