At first you think that you are a straight, cis, allosexual/romantic with no knowledge about the LGBTQ+ community or identities, while denying having a gender identity and or a romantic/sexual orientation that differs from the ''norm''. Then you learn about the LGBTQ+ community and their struggles so you become an ally. But soon,you find yourself identifying with some of the identities/struggles of queer people and you start questioning your romantic/sexuality and or gender identity. In the end, you identify as a member of the LGBTQ+ community.