Explanation in the comments. TW: ERP’s.

About a week ago, when Zari and I were still dating, he meme chatted me for the first time in ages. He managed to direct the conversation to an ERP, which I wasn’t comfortable doing but I had recently had an anxiety attack and was pretty vulnerable, so I ended up doing it. After the ERP, I vented to Eclipse, Chaws, and SWN about the situation. SWN had beef with Zari previously so she did most of the talking. Chaws and SWN informed me that this was groomer behavior and convinced me to break up with Zari.

This is just my story and only the parts relevant to the groomer allegations.

So you went along with a erp instead of saying no and people are mad at him?

lmfao real

Rare tweak reply

Get the "vulnerable" part straight bro
That's exploitation

Still think it’s pretty damn easy to go “nah bro” or not reply…

Okay you try having an anxiety attack, see how it feels

… I have had many??? I’m not blaming you for anything bro tf are you mad about

I’m less mad about the whole situation and just trying to explain myself. I was tired and vulnerable and just frazzled

Alr that’s understandable and I’m sorry

Ok
But have you been in that situation before?
Because I don't think you are in a position to project that on them

Yes I have

I see, well, maybe they just handle it differently than you would

People aren't exactly the most logical when stressed or under pressure
Sure looking back there could've been better ways of handling it
But they didn't think of it at the time

Fair enough

He pressured me into it
I didn’t want to but I was scared to say no

Look I’m sorry that happened but my guy just don’t respond…

So essentially he just manipulated your emotions into doing your bidding?

Pretty much

Damn, that sucks. Sorry that happened.

Sorry this shit happened

It’s not your fault at all
But ty

Np