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I feel the same way about compliments, most of the time idk they just seem fake asf, like people are just trying to make me feel good or something

That's one of the reason people give compliments, yes.

I don't like it
If it's ingenuine I don't want it

If a person wants to make you feel better, it's genuine.

this is f**king hilarious

Why?

people have given me fake compliments and promised me they were real.

And why do you think they did that?

yes

pfffff

Something in their brain triggered that response, didn't it? It was the feeling that you are mentally unwell. Summed up, you can say that people care about you. Backed up by science just now.

I still don't want to hear fake shit about me

:(

Example?

For example sometimes people will say "Oh you're beautiful" or something and not mean it

You want the truth? Fine.
The concept of personality is not real, since a concept can't create itself. We are not human, but instead just part of a giant chemical reaction that is the cosmos.

See why it might be desirable to leave the truth as is? And to instead focus on the things we love?

Doesn't mean I like it
I'd rather know things how they are so I can take action accordingly

If yoU have concerns or are feeling down, I will likely be available. If I am occupied with something long-term, I usually check no longer than every two hours.

Same here, don't hesitate to come and talk if ya want

And what are the actions you plan on Executing in case someone gives an actual compliment?

Here is one: You are a wonderful conversation partner. I genuinely enjoy talking with you. And yes, I have reasons to say that.

Well im flattered, but I'm more talking about just telling me the truth

If you have something negative to say, you shouldn't have to beat around the bush and do mental gymnastics

Wither way, what reasons would those be?

So why are they doing it?

to be nice
which I still respect trying to be nice but I can't stand sugarcoating shit for the sake of it

You raise excellent points, talk in an acceptable and normal manner, are nice to me, actually think about the things I say and actually put effort into the upkeep and quality of the conversation.

Well I'm doubly flattered
Thanks for being genuine

For the sake of what? They have a goal, which is to make you feel better, and they at least attempt to reach that goal. Doesn't that mean something? Maybe that they care? That they care for a reason?

Look the whole caring thing is weird to me, I can't say much there
All I can say is I detest that kind of lie just to make me feel good. I would rather a blunt truth

How do you know, though? They could also be saying it in the context of self-loathing where this active statement becomes an act of expression of disagreement.
By the way, I an sure there is at least something good-looking about you.

The way people sometimes can't elaborate on a compliment, that was just an example. Somebody will say something nice, I ask them to be more specific as to what they like about it, they can't think of anything

Of course!

Well, I have reached my goal. I made you happy with a compliment. Now I have a new goal: Continuing conversation. Though I would not mind to move that to another point in time, hence why I followed you. If you or I have anything to start a conversation over, we can talk over Memechat.

Sounds good
This part is always difficult, trying to find more things to talk about

Anyways memechat isn't a terrible idea

Yeah

probably because you're not quite used to them...

I get em from my parents all the time and it's like yeah that's not true but then people be calling me unacceptable stuff and it's like true lol

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Honestly it's got fair reasoning theirs not many compliments that people can give to me that are true and a lot of insults that are