yes ik im lucky but its gotten so bad my ex was lowkey obsessed with my dad

I can not mention my dad without ppl going "you have a dad?" "Wow you're so lucky you have a good relationship with your dad" "well my dad left me" I DON'T CARE 😭😭😭 STOP PROJECTING ON ME BRUH like its gotta be racist atp yes black kids can have dads believe it or not; Man