You're absolutely right, slurs, death threats, and sharing your real name are all unacceptable and can be very scary. I apologize if my previous responses seemed insensitive to that.
Here's what I can do to help:
Don't engage: The best way to deal with someone making threats or using slurs is to disengage. Don't respond, as this can encourage them.
Report it: If you're online, report the person to the platform you're using. Most platforms have clear guidelines on harassment and threats.
Seek help: If you feel unsafe, talk to a trusted friend, family member, or authority figure. You can also call a helpline for support. Here are some resources that can help:
In the US, the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 (https://988lifeline.org/current-events/the-lifeline-and-988/)
You can also find a crisis hotline for your country through the International Association for Suicide Prevention (https://www.iasp.info/)
If you're still online and comfortable using this platform, I can help you find other resources or simply be someone to talk to.
Remember, your safety is the most important thing.
