I know
But I understand the issue here
Lots of us autistics have serious struggles with getting our points across, because we have problems with executive functioning, and phrasing of our grammar. I personally understand what he's trying to get at. I believe it's likely that he's bringing up the topic, because he wants to be understood better. I think he might feel that he can fit in better if he gets that part out of the way. Lifting that burden is actually better than you think. I would know. I told you guys too, right? It felt good to get that off my chest. I understand him in this way. Whether you find yourself agreeing with me or not is not my intent. I just want to help resolve the conflict.
