True! I meet plenty of those types all the time, they are mainly the chasers but a few straight guys are like that too, especially the frickin’ chasers. It is unironically so dysphoria inducing :(((. The worst one I saw, he literally had numerous trans porn tabs open on chrome, and yet he still denied it, kept misgendering me, kept casually making transphobic remarks, and then when we were sitting on the couch watching TV, he kept asking, “why are you nervous about topping me? You don’t have to worry about feeling nervous…” and I was getting uncomfortable and tried to explain it to him, but he clearly wasn’t getting it at all and basically just was saying the whole “why are you depressed when there is so much to be happy about?” Sort of spheal, but with my gender dysphoria instead of depression. I told him during one of his rants “I’m going home. Gotta walk my dog. Nobody else is gonna be home.” And then he tried to get me to stay at his place, because I promised that I’d spend the night earlier, but I wasn’t having it. From that day forward, I usually block those types of I suspect someone is them, and I immediately block if they mention “trans porn” or “topping” even once.
The only thing I can think is worse than those types, are the radical trans activists who say stuff like, “going stealth is internalized transphobia,” or “taking on a traditionally feminine/masculine social role which aligns with your gender identity makes you a class traitor,” because those are both things which undermine assimilation and living a normal life, which is the goal of many trans people out there. Those types of people are pretty much saying that I have to be an “independent” maiden working in a cubicle for 60 hours a week, otherwise I’m oppressing them, when in reality, I just want to live a somewhat normal life adopting kids, homesteading, going to church, taking a husband, etc., and none of those things mean I support oppression in any way shape or form.
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