As an Xbox and Nintendo fan, I have input.
1. Xbox users aren’t that toxic.
When it comes to Nintendo, their philosophy is that you don’t need the most powerful console on the market to satisfy users, you need good games. The switch is also limited in the power it can have because of its handheld nature, Nintendo also kept up with PowerPC architecture until the Wii U.
Xbox is a console platform first, and while they do have studios, they aren’t as well known and the platform itself. Your meme is a natural drawback of home consoles. You sacrifice portability for power. And in my opinion, Xbox actually has some great games. Check out gamepass.