because like I said
you don't get to tell people what they should be called
they tell you what they should be called
if someone refused to call you by your real name, you'd be pretty upset
you can do that
of course, people may choose to disrespect you or something, but they'd be wrong
as long as what you are doing is within the rule of law
PEOPLE DON'T GO AROUND TELLING YOU WHAT YOUR NAME IS OR WHAT YOUR PRONOUNS ARE
BY YOUR LOGIC I COULD SAY YOUR PRONOUNS ARE THEY/THEM AND YOUR NAME IS CARL