call me boring all you like, won't change how good i feel about resolving the conflict peacefully

at least it wasn’t with violence or black mail

yeah, it's always best for an argument/disagreement/fight to end peacefully

yeah

what was it abt

i got banned for explaining old drama about someone
said someone was like my most hated user cause they did a lot of bad things and i thought they never apologized and so i held a grudge that lasted around two years
the grudge was seriously weighing me down without me realizing
i had a big nasty argument with the mod who banned me, until it was eventually revealed that the person i hated actually DID apologize, like a genuine apology, not half-assed
i metaphorically shook hands with the mod, they removed my ban, and now i have one less weight on my chest

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