yes i need help sometimes (Teddy: i can help!)

so my freind recently cae out to me as trans. whitch suprised me because i thought that if anything they would be the least likely to be trans in my freind group. this makes zero change at all besides correct name and pronouns. but im making a big deal abount this.

A lot of things like this happen to everyone! It's always a good idea to slow your thoughts about it and later finally open them all up!

i am speed runing the stages of greif.

time! thats like two days

i mean they say they are trans but the character rthat they named themself after seems more enby. and this is where my problem starts. i am a sceptic and it is hurting me. and i feel like tis might just runs down to what i would do in their situation. the sceptisism is causing "intrusive thoughts" or worst case senarios that play out as if i were the one in the situation.

turns out that it is a massive couincadence that their name is that. its actualy from a game.

but i feel like this situation is shadowing another problem i have. now that i have taken the prior issue i begin to see the ligitimate problem i had.
gender is a consept that no one has a full grasp on. its funny like that. how does one describe feelings abount ones self? thats the question that i will hook myself onto for now.

just be sure to love them and support them the same and it's all good.

i think that just telling people abount this helped a ton.