now do the freind divetion trick.
if... no when you come out you need some context before. say someone you met now identifys as trans fem and you want their oppinion on trans fems. if they have a positive attitude then say that that freind is you. elce say it was just you wonderinghow they feel abount trans people in general.
boom works like not hot garbage and may get a laugh if you follow up with something along the lines of your freind being you