SENPAI OF THE POOL, WHAT IS YOUR WISDOM FOR ALL ADULTS WHO DATE EACH OTHER? WOMEN ARE TYPICALLY REALISTS IN LOVE WHO WANT TO BE ROMANTIC. THEY CRAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO ENTER A FLOW STATE. MEN ARE TYPICALLY ROMANTICS IN LOVE WHO NEED TO BE REALISTS AND USE EVERY OPPORTUNITY TO DO SO. THIS PROVIDES THE FLOW STATE TO EXIST.