pls

So I’m gonna dumb it down how I see it (my level)

So for example, there’s m&ms in the skittles box. They feel like they don’t belong there, but they pretend to be skittles anyway. This is referring to someone being amab and identifying more female/enby. Once the skittles box is opened, the m&ms realise, “hey, I don’t belong here!” And they “transition” into being themself, by going into the m&m’s box.

I think that makes sense?

yes

Transgender
Root word meaning to move or to travel
When the gender your brain has does not match up with your body and/or how you are seen
The incongruence is aided by transitioning, which most of the time includes changing some of your social aspects and a medical transition

Any questions?

um, yeah, english pls

Alright Emma

Which words would you like me to define?

ummmmm

Incongruence, when two objects or ideas are not the same
Social transitioning- to change one's name, pronouns, and/or things such as clothes or hair
Medical transitioning- taking hormones or getting surgery to make oneself feel like the gender they are physically

so i could say im a girl and change my name?

Yes.
You are what you say you are.
Any other questions?

so socially that would make me trans or something?

I assume that you are assigned male at birth
So yes

well ive been thinking abt this for a while now, so, call me emma

how i see it is that you are one thing and then you think that you act or somthing of another thing. sure you come the skittles bag but yur an m&m (im sure you already figured it out)(also thanks for the metafore @veloceraptor i will use that analgoy in future intsances (for the good of all people))