My one friends (non-binary) mom was like this and OMFG SHE WAS SO ANNOYING. She is one of the reasons I still haven't came out ro my parents bc I dont want them to be like her. I know my parents would probably be ok with it bc my mom is a very accepting person and my dad is "cool with dem gays" but I still don't want to run the risk of coming out to them just bc they might end up like this.
Sorry for the vent. I just don't get to do this that often.