I spent 5 hours on an enderman farm in a Realm just for a lag clear to despawn my endermite

that must've stung.
how long have you been on this survival world for?

it's a realm, i played it originally back in 2022 for like 4 months before it got corrupted (huge realm btw it was always full) and it just came back up about 2 months ago, its the same seed but nothing saved so it's a fresh start.

Damn, fair enough