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The advice from auseryoumayknow is pretty spot on, but remember, if it's too much for you, you can always just call yourself ace-spec and leave it at that! That's why I do, I find it easier than finding a bunch of microlables to figure out exactly how I feel. But if you prefer a specific label, that's fine too! Whatever is comfy 💜💜💜

My ego thrives on 😌

So... you're trying to figure out your sexuality?

Yeah pretty much

My friend said that I might be Demi too, basically in her words, you do feel attraction to others romantically but it takes time for you to actually feel like that, so like you'll either have to know the person for a long time to actually gain the feelings. Its pretty confusing I get that, but I hope this helped in some way! :D

Kinda what AUserYouMayKnow said =^

thats LGBTQ in a nutshell

So what's your question?

How am I supposed to figure out what the sexuality thing is

I don’t know how to word this

I always look at the wiki and make fun of the joke articles and that’s how I found out I’m Grey Ace

There’s a whole lot of articles that were put on there by homophobes, so I’d be careful on there. You should know wether it’s official or not!

But I feel like just looking into yourself should help.

Greyromantic/Greysexual: only finding romantic/sexual attraction rarely. You can, just like once in a blue moon. You don’t really label yourself under regular labels, so there’s this one.

Demiromantic/Demisexual: finding romantic/sexual attraction only after you’re emotionally comfortable. Most people just hop right into relationships but Demi’s seem to only fall in love with friends.

Hope this helps you! If you have any further questions mc me, my dm’s are always open my dude

A note on this definition I don't identify as ace but I do have the experience of only falling in love with friends. So I'd like to add another thing that I've heard from a demi person."Demi-sexual is like ace sexual, until you're not." Hope this helps

Omg that is so real

Could you describe to me how you feel on sexuality