she'll probably be fine with it but i just can't muster up the willpower to

Idk

Idek bruh

It could help to write it down and give it to your mom.

I wanna say that , the best way is to write on a paper what you wanna tell her and go talk to her with the paper so you can read insted of trying to find the word on live , but you can try a lot of more creative things ngl

“Mom, I’m (insert identity)” *runs away cackling*