1 + 2. just because a handful of them were rude, it doesn't mean that all of them are rude
3. I have, many of them in fact, there's en entire stream of them here
4. they don't all act like that, I don't know how many times I have to say it, but just because a couple of them act that way, that doesn't mean that the entire community acts like that, there's furrys at NASA, in the military, everywhere, they just hide who they are because they're afraid people like you are just going to be rude all of the time because of who they are, and that's probably why you've had bad experiences, because you were rude to them first