You can spend your life fighting about petty things or you can learn the true nature of creatures. I have a story: On our honeymoon at the Grand Canyon, we took a trip down to the bottom by pack mule.
We hadn't gone far down the trail when My wife's mule stumbles and bumps her. My wife quietly says, "That's once." I didn't think much of it.
A little farther the mule stumbles again. Almost knocks her over. My Sophie quietly says, "That's twice."
After half mile the mule stumbles a third time, she takes her revolver from her belt & shoots the animal.
"I look over at her and say, Sophie, "How can you be so cruel to a poor dumb animal?"
Sophie looks at me and quietly says, "That's once." We have never fought to this day. That was 30 year ago.