i'm just really close with my youth leaders (the female ones anyway)

Thats why women shouldnt be leaders.

Didache: Chapter 2. The Second Commandment: Grave Sin Forbidden. And the second commandment of the Teaching; You shall not commit murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not commit pederasty, you shall not commit fornication, you shall not steal, you shall not practice magic, you shall not practice witchcraft, you shall not murder a child by abortion nor kill that which is born.

If she is a sister in Christ and like a sister too, then we must stay strong and resist temptation, my brother in Christ.