I'm not being a grump and I've had fun here well tried to at least, you remember the incident, we just don't know these individuals real life's offline of you told me to get hit by a car (which I have been) that could throw me into a relapse I'm just trying to make sure no one gets hurt simply because we don't know. So I'm sorry if I seem crude but I'm not trying to be rude I just want a legitimate safe community